My girlfriend is suicidal?
my girlfriend (yeah we're lesbians.) is suicidal, she's fourteen. i have been dating her for nine months, and she is seriously depressed. she's on meds for ADHD (incase that could cause any issues). i feel like im the only thing keeping her alive, and i hate that. i don't know what to do, she has...
Asked by Rolande Altamirano 2 years ago.
my girlfriend (yeah we're lesbians.) is suicidal, she's fourteen. i have been dating her for nine months, and she is seriously depressed. she's on meds for ADHD (incase that could cause any issues). i feel like im the only thing keeping her alive, and i hate that. i don't know what to do, she has been trying to find ways to kill herself for the last few months now. she lives in south carolina and i live in florida. her mom lets her do anything she wants, and doesn't ever ground her for anything. her mom is aware of her cutting and doesn't care. my baby was sexually abused by her biological father when she was like 5,6,7 & 8. and she doesnt see him now, but its still fresh in her memory as if it just happened. she often says she doesnt deserve life, and that she makes everyones life more miserable. she snorts angel dust, and smokes weed, and huffs air dusters, and takes alot of effexor pills, celexa, nuromax, and a few others. i keep crying and asking her not to do anything stupid, and its just alot of stress. i want to help her, but im being consumed with everything because im not sure what to do. i need someone to help me, i dont know what to do with her. i need to know what to say and how to make her stop relying on me for life. because im starting to feel trapped. i dont want to leave her, i want to help her. i love her, and i want to stay with her. please don't take this lightly, its serious, its not for attention. she is serious. Answered by Charmain Horde 2 years ago.
if you're serious call the police or put her on suicide watch in a hospital. wtf are you doing on yahoo answers. Answered by Devin Grosskopf 2 years ago.
Haley, If you're afraid your girlfriend is going to do something today to end her life, you need to call for help--stat. I'm guessing that you're a teenager, too? If that's the case, tell your mom or dad. See if they can find a way to contact your girlfriend's mom. If they can't, call the police and give them whatever information you have! They can trace her with a cell number, for example. Otherwise, if these are just suicidal thoughts and you don't think she's planning to kill herself tonight, you still need to take some action. She's putting you in a terrible, unhealthy situation! Her depression and past trauma is a job for a professional, not a friend--no matter how good a girlfriend you are! Tell her to talk to her school counselor or ask her mother to set up some counseling appointments for her. If her mother isn't caring for her, her mom could face neglect charges. Another option: have her call us at Boys Town. We get a lot of calls from kids like her (unfortunately.) We might be able to point her in the right direction. Our number is below in the sig; we're 24/7. You can call us, too, if you need to talk about this. We're happy to help. :) Take care of yourself! MKM Boys Town National Hotline 1-800-448-3000 Answered by Shanell Alejandre 2 years ago.
If she's suicidal, she needs to go to a hospital. If you have to call a suicide hotline on her behalf, do it. Answered by Naomi Gunn 2 years ago.